With that aside, I absolutely do want to foster social mobility. I actually think it’s still possible but probably not in the dream-world way many people think where it comes completely on their own terms. In most cases, it involves avoiding a few basic things like substance abuse, onerous debt, living outside ones means, and having kids before one is financially stable.
But that often flies in the face of what people emotionally want or are told to pursue, so sometimes people want to go into massive debt for depreciating assets or to go to college because that’s what “everyone” does, or to live in an expensive, trendy area because it’s cool or they think that’s where they need to be to chase status. Barring those types of mistakes, social mobility (towards the upper middle class level at least) is generally available. I’m willing to bet many people on HN are already close to that status even if it doesn’t feel like it because they’re comparing themselves to economic outliers rather than the average citizen.
With that aside, I absolutely do want to foster social mobility. I actually think it’s still possible but probably not in the dream-world way many people think where it comes completely on their own terms. In most cases, it involves avoiding a few basic things like substance abuse, onerous debt, living outside ones means, and having kids before one is financially stable.
But that often flies in the face of what people emotionally want or are told to pursue, so sometimes people want to go into massive debt for depreciating assets or to go to college because that’s what “everyone” does, or to live in an expensive, trendy area because it’s cool or they think that’s where they need to be to chase status. Barring those types of mistakes, social mobility (towards the upper middle class level at least) is generally available. I’m willing to bet many people on HN are already close to that status even if it doesn’t feel like it because they’re comparing themselves to economic outliers rather than the average citizen.