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I don't understand what's going on with gender speech.

No matter how I want I can't give birth to baby. Not carry, not breastfeed. This results in different roles in hunter-gatherer society, optimized in genes throughout millennia.

We should have same rights but we can't expect same results. We have different stats, we have different brains (hormones whatever). Even children. Boys compete a lot and are in material science. Girls builds groups. It is awesome to watch. Like girls emotional intellect on average is much higher. And boys EQ is much dumber.

I believe I can say this. But for some reason in games based on EQ... no, we should be equal.

I dance salsa. It is very asymmetric social dance. Man and woman have very distinct roles and we enjoy it a lot. Woman waits for invitation, man can invite, woman can reject. Thus balance is formed. Each dance starts with mini game - invite the one who wants to dance with you. And it is all just for fun. Also men are not expected to reject. I've seen woman inviting men on each dance, that ends badly - exploitation of rules - loss of goodwill. A month later noone invites her, rejected by society. Hope it shows that "ignore" is not bad in some cultures.

We should grew respect to who we are and each other. Accept strong and weak sides. That is the best antidote against unreasonable expectations.

Sorry, but I think your understanding is just a reflection of yourself.

More accurate and neutral rewrite would be speech from personal experience:

> Woman I've contacted on dating apps overwhelmingly respond to popular account, otherwise ignore.

Like nothing changed at all. No excuses, no expectations just naked truth. That's how it should be read.



No need to apologize, we all tend to understand things in ways that reflect ourselves!


Look what I've done here. I've said "dumber" not "lower". You've said nothing. That's double standards.




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